Comments on: Lonely, I am so lonely… http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/ An inquisitive mind is a sound mind. Sun, 20 Dec 2009 17:22:17 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Anniyan http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-787 Anniyan Wed, 17 Dec 2008 04:56:21 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-787 <b>T</b> I can't believe I haven't seen you comment for this long! :O Sorry for the late reply. You are completely right about the initial euphoria. Even adapting to the loneliness is not enough to keep you sane. and why DO old people have pets? I guess it is because they yearn for some affection from their children. But if they aren't getting any from them, they would turn to pets. I guess the pets do a better job of keeping them happy. :) <b>manushi</b> I respect other's personal space. But whatever it is that you are locking away inside yourself, is better if it is told to at least <i>someone</i> who is close to you. :) T
I can’t believe I haven’t seen you comment for this long! :O Sorry for the late reply. You are completely right about the initial euphoria. Even adapting to the loneliness is not enough to keep you sane. and why DO old people have pets? I guess it is because they yearn for some affection from their children. But if they aren’t getting any from them, they would turn to pets. I guess the pets do a better job of keeping them happy. :)

manushi
I respect other’s personal space. But whatever it is that you are locking away inside yourself, is better if it is told to at least someone who is close to you. :)

]]> By: manushi http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-780 manushi Tue, 16 Dec 2008 08:44:42 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-780 "Have you ever felt you feel so lonely even though you are surrounded by many people? If your answer is yes, that is because you want to keep to yourself even if there are people who are willing to interact with you. Introverts tend to feel lonely very often. They expect something more(don’t know what exactly) from the people around them." i am not an introvert and i feel that too when i am too sad and somehow dont want people to enter my space "that is because you want to keep to yourself even if there are people who are willing to interact with you".....you are right here :) “Have you ever felt you feel so lonely even though you are surrounded by many people? If your answer is yes, that is because you want to keep to yourself even if there are people who are willing to interact with you. Introverts tend to feel lonely very often. They expect something more(don’t know what exactly) from the people around them.” i am not an introvert and i feel that too when i am too sad and somehow dont want people to enter my space “that is because you want to keep to yourself even if there are people who are willing to interact with you”…..you are right here :)

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]]> By: Final List of Nominated Posts « Visceral Observations http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-562 Final List of Nominated Posts « Visceral Observations Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:57:52 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-562 [...] Hero Author: Pink Bee The 7 Chakras Author: Withering Willow So Long Robin Author: Ringchen Lonely..I am So Lonely Author: Pavan Heinous Misinterpretation Author: Kartz Blogosophy Author: [...] [...] Hero Author: Pink Bee The 7 Chakras Author: Withering Willow So Long Robin Author: Ringchen Lonely..I am So Lonely Author: Pavan Heinous Misinterpretation Author: Kartz Blogosophy Author: [...]

]]> By: T http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-555 T Sat, 18 Oct 2008 17:07:46 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-555 With half the world going mad and materialistic what one can expect ? Loneliness is recurring dream. Adapting to it is hard initially but its more easier for an introvert. Though after sometime it will turn into something more fugly. Watch Castaway, its the movie that goes with your topic. I'm Legend had enough chars (veteran will smith) to made it less than lonely. Even a pet could be good companion. Wonder why old people prefer having pets ? With half the world going mad and materialistic what one can expect ? Loneliness is recurring dream. Adapting to it is hard initially but its more easier for an introvert. Though after sometime it will turn into something more fugly.

Watch Castaway, its the movie that goes with your topic. I’m Legend had enough chars (veteran will smith) to made it less than lonely. Even a pet could be good companion. Wonder why old people prefer having pets ?

]]> By: Nominations So Far…(Updated 06/Oct…still more to come) « Visceral Observations http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-541 Nominations So Far…(Updated 06/Oct…still more to come) « Visceral Observations Thu, 16 Oct 2008 06:07:42 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-541 [...] Hero Author: Pink Bee The 7 Chakras Author: Withering Willow So Long Robin Author: Ringchen Lonely..I am So Lonely Author: [...] [...] Hero Author: Pink Bee The 7 Chakras Author: Withering Willow So Long Robin Author: Ringchen Lonely..I am So Lonely Author: [...]

]]> By: Anniyan http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-488 Anniyan Wed, 01 Oct 2008 03:29:01 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-488 <strong>@Bhargav</strong> <blockquote>"For me loneliness is killing …. but I also know of a lot of people for whom ‘two is a crowd’ ! ..they sulk, they dont give their opinions, they just dont participate - but mind you it also is sometimes NOT a psychological disorder……"</blockquote> I called them <strong>Introverts</strong>. How I am so sure of this is because I <em>was</em> one myself. :) <blockquote>"I have read that ‘depression out of loneliness’ is one of the biggest problems in the USA especially for the elderly ……. it is sad to see and hear about such instances …:("</blockquote> Depression out of loneliness is the worst consequence of loneliness. The only way it can be rectified is if the old people are shown at least <em>some</em> mercy by their sons/daughters and are spoken to once in a while. Nice motto. :) <strong>@vimal</strong> Oh! But we <em>want</em> you to get married. :D I can't see any other chances of a bachelor party. :D Good to know that I would be invited. :) Otherwise I would be gate-crashing anyways. :P <strong>@Oxy</strong> Oxy my boy, there is something seriously wrong with your head. :P Just kidding. :) But you can't live like that forever. Why do you call home once in 2 days? It's because you love your parents and don't want them to worry. Forced loneliness negates all contact with the outside world. I hope no human being is put to endure that kind of torture. <strong>@Jane Doe</strong> Welcome to <em>"Care to take a Look?"</em> :) Nice point. I din't visualize the thin line between loneliness and solitude. Almost always I saw them both as the same thing. And these "anchors" are our only respite from insanity. :) Looking forward to your commenting here again. :) <strong>@arvind</strong> That was a really good bit of acting by <em>Will Smith</em>; don't you think? I most definitely wouldn't survive such a fate if it embraced me. @Bhargav

“For me loneliness is killing …. but I also know of a lot of people for whom ‘two is a crowd’ ! ..they sulk, they dont give their opinions, they just dont participate – but mind you it also is sometimes NOT a psychological disorder……”

I called them Introverts. How I am so sure of this is because I was one myself. :)

“I have read that ‘depression out of loneliness’ is one of the biggest problems in the USA especially for the elderly ……. it is sad to see and hear about such instances …:(“

Depression out of loneliness is the worst consequence of loneliness. The only way it can be rectified is if the old people are shown at least some mercy by their sons/daughters and are spoken to once in a while.

Nice motto. :)

@vimal
Oh! But we want you to get married. :D I can’t see any other chances of a bachelor party. :D Good to know that I would be invited. :) Otherwise I would be gate-crashing anyways. :P

@Oxy
Oxy my boy, there is something seriously wrong with your head. :P Just kidding. :) But you can’t live like that forever. Why do you call home once in 2 days? It’s because you love your parents and don’t want them to worry. Forced loneliness negates all contact with the outside world. I hope no human being is put to endure that kind of torture.

@Jane Doe
Welcome to “Care to take a Look?” :) Nice point. I din’t visualize the thin line between loneliness and solitude. Almost always I saw them both as the same thing. And these “anchors” are our only respite from insanity. :) Looking forward to your commenting here again. :)

@arvind
That was a really good bit of acting by Will Smith; don’t you think? I most definitely wouldn’t survive such a fate if it embraced me.

]]> By: arvind http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-487 arvind Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:34:59 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-487 well nice end to the post.. introverts do fell lonely and the worse thing is they do not say it to others too ... I would die rather than living like will smith in a god forsaken place.. well nice end to the post..
introverts do fell lonely and the worse thing is they do not say it to others too …
I would die rather than living like will smith in a god forsaken place..

]]> By: Jane Doe http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-485 Jane Doe Tue, 30 Sep 2008 09:31:38 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-485 I couldn't agree more. Loneliness is one of my deepest fears and worst nightmares. For the people who say they enjoy being lonely, I think what they mean to say is that they enjoy their share of solitude. I believe the word loneliness itself is negative. Then again, there's a very thin line between loneliness and solitude so it depends entirely on which side one is on. I don't think surrounding yourself with people will help. Its essential to reach out to the 'anchors' in your life at a time when you are down in the dumps. I couldn’t agree more. Loneliness is one of my deepest fears and worst nightmares.

For the people who say they enjoy being lonely, I think what they mean to say is that they enjoy their share of solitude. I believe the word loneliness itself is negative.

Then again, there’s a very thin line between loneliness and solitude so it depends entirely on which side one is on.

I don’t think surrounding yourself with people will help. Its essential to reach out to the ‘anchors’ in your life at a time when you are down in the dumps.

]]> By: vimal http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/2008/09/27/lonely-i-am-so-lonely/#comment-484 vimal Mon, 29 Sep 2008 20:57:35 +0000 http://indiapavan.wordpress.com/?p=163#comment-484 ok, enough of being lonely....You have been awarded : http://vimalsparadise.blogspot.com/2008/09/thanks-sorryoh-wait-thanks-again.html ok, enough of being lonely….You have been awarded :

http://vimalsparadise.blogspot.com/2008/09/thanks-sorryoh-wait-thanks-again.html

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